{"id":17933,"date":"2016-11-08T01:01:19","date_gmt":"2016-11-08T06:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.cancaonova.com\/catholicismanew\/?p=17933"},"modified":"2016-09-27T05:18:07","modified_gmt":"2016-09-27T10:18:07","slug":"love-requires-sacrifice-in-favor-of-the-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.cancaonova.com\/catholicismanew\/2016\/11\/08\/love-requires-sacrifice-in-favor-of-the-other\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Requires Sacrifice in Favor of the Other"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Worth a sacrifice when the fruit is guaranteed, because love requires sacrifice<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_39798\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\">\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-39798\" src=\"http:\/\/img.cancaonova.com\/cnimages\/canais\/uploads\/sites\/12\/2016\/08\/Amar-exige-sacrif%C3%ADcios-em-favor-do-outro.jpg\" alt=\"Amar exige sacrif\u00edcios em favor do outro\" width=\"600\" height=\"350\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\" lang=\"en\">Photo: File New Song<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p lang=\"en\">Meditate the word of John 12.27 -32<\/p>\n<p><strong><span lang=\"en\">&#8220;<\/span>Now is my soul troubled. And what shall I say? Father, save me from this hour. But for this cause I came unto this hour. Father, glorify thy name. A voice therefore came from heaven: I have both glorified it, and will glorify it again. The multitude therefore that stood and heard, said that it thundered. Others said: An angel spoke to him. Jesus answered, and said: This voice came not because of me, but for your sakes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now is the judgment of the world: now shall the prince of this world be cast out. And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all things to myself.&#8221;<\/strong> John 12:27-32 (DRBO)<\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">&#8220;It&#8217;s easier to build bridges than to raise walls.&#8221; <\/span><span lang=\"en\">(Pope Francis)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Jesus is the great bridge that unites us to God, but this is not done without sacrifices. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Sometimes we think only we were disturbed, but those next to us are also bothered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p lang=\"en\">We are suffering, impatient, but we forget that, in the heart of who is at our side, there are others that have the same concerns, or even worse things.<\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">We don&#8217;t notice that our Lord also faced times of disruption, and that this time it was recorded in the word, for us to learn what to do. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">And what shall we say? <\/span><span lang=\"en\">&#8220;Lord, RID me of this time&#8221; or &#8220;Lord, get rid of that responsibility? <\/span><span lang=\"en\">If you came to this world to go through such a situation, if this is the challenge of our lives, why do we ask God to take us away from this opportunity to do his will? <\/span><span lang=\"en\">No! <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Let&#8217;s ask: &#8220;Father, glorify your name&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sacrifice comes at a price<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Don&#8217;t ask God to get rid of the struggles if they are for our\u00a0growth, wisdom and salvation. What is the\u00a0<\/span><span lang=\"en\">sacrifice worth if one doesn&#8217;t have to pay a price? It is w<\/span><span lang=\"en\">orth a sacrifice when the fruit is guaranteed, because love requires sacrifice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p lang=\"en\">When we make sacrifices for God, the fruit of the sacrifice is salvation.<\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">You want to be loved? <\/span><span lang=\"en\">I give you a hint: without sacrifices we will never attract people to us or to God.<\/span><span lang=\"en\">There&#8217;s no other way, we have to make sacrifices. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">We will only be able to bring people together with\u00a0us when we are filled with God&#8217;s love. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Only love can bring us to say: &#8220;Father, glorify your name&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">As temptation plagues us through the illusion, making us believe that we are no good! <\/span><span lang=\"en\">That happens so that we do not glorify God in the reality of our life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Love how the Lord loves us<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Jesus touched the people who nobody wanted to go near, He was next to them. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">When we come to it, that&#8217;s the first thing that makes us notice: the strength and depth that we love. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Did you know that God loves us to\u00a0the depth our being?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">This Word reveals that the cross is not the failure of love, but the perfection of it. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Jesus went up on the cross so that we could see His\u00a0open arms as a gesture of love. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">The Holy Spirit and Divine Providence are building a marvelous work! <\/span><span lang=\"en\">We&#8217;re not seeing it, but mercy is happening.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Are you suffering? <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Despite this, be sure to love. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Cure hatred in an embrace of peace. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Remember that love requires sacrifice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Love disarms violence. Love<\/span><span lang=\"en\">\u00a0in a hug, to show that love heals the sin. To e<\/span><span lang=\"en\">mbrace is to bring the other into the heart. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">The arms of Jesus represent to us the love, they are arms that embrace without suffocating us.\u00a0.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Sometimes, we get a love that&#8217;s coming up because it&#8217;s suffocating. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Without freedom there is no love.<\/span><span lang=\"en\">Don&#8217;t make the person a dependent on you, because that is a disease. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">An adult cannot rely on another person, because that dependency does not let a person be true to his or herself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>To love you have to invest<\/strong><\/p>\n<p lang=\"en\">Who loves invests in and does not sabotage freedom. It does not imprison the other doesn&#8217;t make her or her dependent.<\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">If your House has love, your kids will never abandon it. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">If your husband feels loved, he will never leave her. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">He may even feel deceived by other women, because the beauty enchants the eyes, but the only way to keep him by your side is captivating him in love. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">It&#8217;s always the lack of love that leads the person to leave.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">When someone loves you, he subjects himself to the worst sufferings. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">When we love, we become open to sacrifices.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en\">Jesus endured all that we may understand that He is open to us. <\/span><span lang=\"en\">Regardless of what we do, the heart is always open.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span lang=\"en\">Marcio Mendes<\/span><br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>Can\u00e7\u00e3o Nova\u00a0Community mission<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Portuguese Transcription and adaptation: Leticia Barbosa<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/clube.cancaonova.com\/sorrindo-para-a-vida\/amar-exige-sacrificios-em-favor-do-outro\/\">Portuguese Version<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Worth a sacrifice when the fruit is guaranteed, because love requires sacrifice Photo: File New Song Meditate the word of John 12.27 -32 &#8220;Now is my soul troubled. And what shall I say? Father, save me from this hour. 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