“My Son, do nothing without counsel, and do not regret after you have acted.” (cf Sirach 32:19)
We should not make great decisions alone in the moments of crisis. Doing this is like running with a car without brakes to 100 mph on a road in dense fog. The person drives the car without knowing what is in front of them, it is crazy.
So, wait for the fog to lift in this difficult moment. Only then, you will be able to to have more vision and make decisions with coherence and wisdom. Now if really the decision has to be done now, do not decide alone, seek help from someone that may help you beyond your limits.
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