Through sexuality, we participate in the creative power of God. Thus as the Lord is fertile and His fertility results in the creation of the whole world, we are also fertile: we receive this fertility from the Father and we are creators as is the Father.
Knowing this, the enemy wants to distort human sexuality through dirty jokes, obscene stories and malicious music. Still small, children already have contact with these erroneous concepts. All these situations collect in the heart and soul of the sons of God that very early, they feel ashamed of the Lord. They are victims and they do leave this situation haing just felt great shame of God the Father.
After first communion many leave confession, the Church, lose courage to go to mass, they relax in all they were founded. They were not bad, but they know that God is God and have shame of appearing before Him in this state. In the truth, the shame that they feel is respect. But this shame is brought to an erroneous mentality on the all powerful and they are marked thus in childhood. It was a great strategy!
The Lord wants to profoundly heal the heart of men and women, because principally when he or she is a child, learns many errors on being human, the child was introduced very early to malice, to bad language, to masturbation, to the practice of early sex. The truth is that these wounds the heart of humanity are reflecting the love of God. They perceive the lack of the God the Father, in infancy, they can promise the interior life of the person, For not living in infancy with the Lord they arrive to youth poorly prepared and very wrong in sexuality. In love, in courtship. . . If they are not wrong physically, they are wrong in their thoughts desires, magazines, films, jokes, bringing them farther from God.
There were not a few that get married unprepared. Marrying in the Church, but they do not marry with God, and it is from Him that the couple receives the grace of being spouses and parents. Many men, go to the altar ashamed for they know that the Lord knows all that they have done in the time of youth, in love, in courtship.
The Lord changes all. He wants to restore all! No matter what age you are, the Father wants to do a great healing in your life, He wants to transform the sadness of not knowing him to friendship with Him. He wants to be your intimate friend. Much better than this is how much God miss you. He never abandons you and wants your friendship.
Monsignor Jonas Abib
Taken from the book: “Homem e mulher em sintonia” [Man and Woman in Tune] by Monsignor Jonas Abib
Translated from Portuguese