It is impressive to see as God sees, to have a predilection for weakest, for those that the world abhors and will never choose. It is through reading the Gospels and seeing the quality of love through which Jesus treats whomever the world dislikes.
St. Paul says that God chooses those who are weak to confuse the strong.
Perhaps then, you can seek to better observe those persons that normally you would not see: They have something special that God sees and that you are missing.
Try this!
With care and prayers,
Your brother,
Ricardo Sá