When it comes to dating, soon one thinks a lot of the type of ideas of ‘ I can ‘ or ‘I cannot ‘. More than that, they want to put in your head that dating needs to be a “test drive” of the other to see how, in fact, we can take ourselves to the maximum of pleasure!

I’m going to cut to the chase and talk to the men on duty to love their girlfriends, and not use them.  I say to  you: “it’s possible to love your girlfriend without having sex with her. Yes, you can make her feel deeply desired, beloved and happy without having to appeal to a sexual relationship before the wedding.

Okay! This text fell into your hands and you don’t believe in this “story” of the last century. But I want to challenge you to go to the bottom of this page, because you can be living a lie in your relationship, you may be mistaken, thinking you’re loving your girlfriend when you take her to the motel or behind closed doors for the adventures of a sex without love.

 

 

Love is hope and it gives you each to the other, and not wanting the other to you. Without much ADO, 10 ways to love her without having sex with her before the wedding:

Love the look: Exercise the ability to see her as a Princess, as a daughter of God, as someone who, in fact, possesses unimaginable virtues. Exercise the ability to demonstrate in you eyes how important she is to you and how your life gains meaning when you spend time looking at her. After all, since you spent more than 5 minutes looking at into her eyes as she looks into yours?

Love at the hearing: Women like to talk, talk and talk. And we men need to exercise the ability to listen to even what they don’t say in a verbal way. Most women want us men to “guess” and spend time listening to what she says. When you do that, you will have discovered the golden thread of the relationship.

Love the feel: Before you feel the naked body of your girlfriend (there is a time reserved for this, that’s called marriage), how about feeling her heart? The  deepest penetration that you may have with her will not be the intercourse, but will be when penetrating in her heart and so feel the feelings that she has!

Love in the play: Our big “Boggle”, while men (unfortunately, the society in the way like that) is touching the girl’s body, in order to achieve the most erogenous parts of it and thus leave it ready for a sexual relationship. But that, in dating, is use and not love. Want to love your girlfriend for real? Spend time listening to her history, in which she lived and lives.

Love in the embrace: As a hug is effective in the art of love! A woman surrounded by a hug that involves not only your body, but has the ability to surround her completely, she feels not only protected, but deeply valued. So your arms have the ability to involve all mystery and beauty of your girlfriend?

Love the Kiss: Kissing is very good! A kiss is more than meeting of lips, it is meeting of wishes and desires. Exercise in giving kisses to your girlfriend in the ability to awaken her to the joy of being together. A woman found in a kiss feels unique and unrepeatable.

Love the smell: Don’t go thinking that I’m talking about French fragrance! Of course this is very nice too. But it’s not just that, I mean feel what Paul said: “Because for God are the good scent of Christ (II Cor 2.15). Feel the fragrance of Jesus, of love, of dreams that he brings, will make her irreplaceable.

Love in the talk: Since Eve, the woman waiting to talk to a man. It was in the absence of talk about Adam Eve chose a bad path. I know we’re not so good at talking, and that’s just our greatest weapon. Exercise the ability to demonstrate your feelings, talk about what you think. Don’t bother to say “I love you”. As said Pier Giorgio, “love never says ‘ enough ‘!”. Talk to her in your dreams, your desires, the importance that it has in your life! If we knew the strength of our voice.

Love in thinking: I believe that one of the greatest proof of love is trying to think about what others think. I’m not saying think like, but get to the place that the other thinks. And when it comes to your girlfriend, thinking about what she thinks is having the ability to get your deepest motivations. After thinking about her thoughts, your actions will be far more assertive.

Love in the dream: When you spend time dreaming, projecting the future. When you have the possibility to dream along with your girlfriend, the future presents itself full of possibilities. Not having sex in dating makes you dream a lot more still with her of the wedding night! Love her in dreams it brings – and tell you are not few. And when she feels that you dream with her, I assure you: you mirarão Heaven in yourselves!

Think little? If you put this goal of love in your relationship, you will be very happy to be making her happy! And after you are married, each sexual intercourse will be overflowing with all these forms of love, as they converge and so will ring in the fullness of love.

And there? After these 10 ways to love without having sex in dating, I ask you: do you love your girlfriend?

Many marriages, when they resolve to live chastity, split up; not because it wasn’t such a good idea, but it was an action that revealed a relationship that had no people, but just “sex”.