It is impressive to perceive that God has a predilection for the weakest, for those that the world abhors and never chooses. It is enough to read the Gospels and to see that the quality of live that Jesus treats whom the world depreciates.
St. Paul said that God chooses the weak to confuse the strong; he choose those that are not to destroy those that are.
Perhaps, then, to seek to observe better the people that normally you don’t notice? They have something special that God sees and that you are losing.
Experiment doing this and let me know the results!
Your Brother,
Ricardo Sá