It is probably that your way of thinking needs to be reformed.
The strong one is the one who knows to stop measuring strength and does not continue on whatever path with the false idea that all is under your control. Courage is knowing to ask for help, sharing new goals and asking instruction from the one who know and can and has done so the most.
The strong one is the one who knows to say “I don’t know” “Wait a minute” “I will respond later” and does not walk in with the airs of the one who knows all, but is merciful in a way of livng
The strong one knows to ak for help without allowing himself to fall to an obligation to say that al is well and that he is right!
Knowing to stop is an arte of who dominates himself. It is, therefore, that the Bible says that it is more valuable that a man dominate himself than he conquer a city!
With care and prayers,
Your brother,
Ricardo Sá