Does the way you dress make men praise God for your beauty or desire you as a sex object? The way you look is pure or sensuous? The way you talk is it contagious or does it turn people off? It’s hard to face our truth, but “the truth shall make you free”(John 8:32).
You can begin to tread a path of purification and detoxification of all sensuality and impurity. A woman who understands that she was created by God to get people to heaven must live the process of sanctification. Leave everything that is old and does not build the foot of the cross of Christ and assume attitudes, gestures, posture and new clothes. “Finally, brothers, occupy themselves with whatever is true, noble, just, pure, lovely, honorable, virtuous, or that somehow deserves praise.” (Philippians 4.8).
I dare you to let the Holy Spirit take the weight of your feelings of being inferior to men and even anger that causes you to hear the word “assist” or “submissive”. Understand, woman, that God created you to build better people, generate life, help humanity that is increasingly getting lost in pride and individualism.Think of your mission of wife in a different way, taught by Jesus in the Gospel, the vision of love. The more we love the man, take care of him, and we respect and care for their dignity, closer to us he will be more of a man, because he will feel loved and healed.
Let us pray together:
Lord, this time I want to give you every time, when I had anger at myself for being a woman. Healing my heart every hurt that I bring because of my past, my history in relation to the male figure. I want to be a young woman who takes the mission to bring help from God to men. Give me the grace Jesus, because alone I know I will not be able. I ask all this through the intercession of Our Lady, the one who knew how to assume its mission as a woman, wife and mother. Virgin Mary lead me in this journey towards holiness that I may assume my identity as daughter of God. Amen.